Sunday, November 21, 2010

Weekend Update

Saturday night, Just Friends played at the Iberian Lounge. We are pleased with the progression in the size of the crowd and the good response from the dancers. Despite using a stripped down system and going without a sound man, we have managed to keep the sound good and the crowd happy. The management of the hotel is going to a smaller band format for next year, but we will be making an appearance on the veranda during the warmer months. Stay tuned for details.

This morning the St. Catherine choir was in fine voice. We've picked up some new members and are up to 19 singers now. It's a fun bunch of people, and the sound is sweet. We did O Sacrament Most Holy and at one point the accompaniment dropped out, and it was all a cappella and very nice. People came up and complimented Joreen on the sound of the choir. Any more new members and we'll need to buy new robes. That's a good problem to have.

Tonight after the 7:00 Mass I went over to Dad and Rose's to celebrate Dad's birthday with him by watching the Eagles with him and David and sharing a pizza. That was fun. I may have to do it again, which means I better work on becoming a football fan. I left after I think it was the second inning.

On the way home, I stopped and got the ingredients for the most important dish of all on Thanksgiving: the green beans, mushroom soup and those dried onions. I love that stuff, especially for lunch the next day with whatever stuffing the kids don't inhale. Thanksgiving rocks.

Monday, November 15, 2010

I Know One Thing True: I Was Born To Play For You


The title is from a tune of mine, "Steady Love," and it describes what I did pretty much all weekend. Friday, I played a solo acoustic show at the Cornerstone Coffeehouse in Camp Hill, PA. It's a nice venue, and I stacked the deck by inviting a bunch of friends. Thanks to Ginny and Bill (Hi Ginny I said hi to you first!), Ed and Grace, Chris and Roger, my dear friend from back in the day Maria Gardner Reedy and her husband Ron, Terry, Alex and his buddy Mark, Sean, Dave Weyl, the multi-talented Karen Gray, the one and only Susie Carter from our first band The Cards, and of course my dear wife, the mighty Mrs. Kelly for their support. This show went more smoothly than the first, and thanks to Alex I actually have a bootleg of it. The above photo is from the CD cover. It's great to have technologically savvy friends.

Some of us went over to Ed and Grace's after the gig to help me celebrate my birthday. We sang and played some more, ate some of Grace's Pampered Chef creations, and did the traditional coconut cake and Jamison's thing (hey, it's our tradition, go get your own!). Before you know it we were partying like kids again -- well, maybe a little more intelligently than kids, but we had a blast. I've said this to all of them and I'll say it again here. There's lots of people with lots more money, but in terms of the friends I've made and kept over the years, I am one of the richest men in the world. It's been a rough patch in some ways recently, and this was a welcome oasis of fun and relaxation. Thanks to you all.

Saturday, my actual birthday, we attended the wedding of Vince's daughter Megan. Joreen played the organ at the Grace United Methodist Church and I accompanied her on guitar for the candle lighting song, "Grow Old With Me," by John Lennon. Nice touch, eh? The reception was a great time. Just Friends were invited as guests, which meant we could scarf hors d'oeuvres and hit the open bar without feeling guilty. We also brought our axes and did a quick set, ending with the father of the bride and I singing a duet on "Volare." Man, how cool is that? Laredo, featuring my brothers Dave and Bill, were the actual wedding band for the day, so we didn't have to load any gear in or out. Bonus!

Sunday was another peak musical experience. Fr. Sullivan organized a solemn vespers to honor those who have died this past year, parishioners and relatives of parishioners. The church was candlelit, with beautiful flowers on the altar and votive candles on a table in the front of church with the names of those who had passed away. My sister in law Jinny had a candle there. Joreen and I and a young man from McDevitt, Tony Bender, who has an amazing voice, did the music. It was deeply moving, and some of the family members of the deceased were visibly touched. Frank DiNatale, another friend from high school and before that, lost his father recently. He came up and embraced me with tears in his eyes. I felt honored to be a part of something so healing and consoling to people who need it.

And now it's back to the grindstone. We've been scaring up a few gigs for next year and hoping we can find the right audience for our band. If any of you know anyone who's getting married, let me know. There's at least a toaster oven in it for you. I hope that doesn't sound too needy.

Thursday, November 11, 2010

I Dot a Code id by Node

but I'm still able to sing, sort of. I'm still going to do the Cornerstone show tomorrow, hopefully coughing and hacking between songs instead of in the middle of them. Just Friends rehearsed tonight, and it's amazing how tight we're getting. The new material is sounding good and we're revisiting old pieces and refurbing them. There's an Italian swing tune called "Tu Vuo Fa L'Americano" which is a blast to play, and Vince just plain pwns it as you can hear here. We've been tweezing it up and it sounds even better now. We're going to "sit in" for Vince's daughter Megan's wedding, which is being played by Laredo.

Meanwhile, days are getting shorter and leaves are getting thicker. I'll have to get around to leafblowing one of these days, unless it snows first.

Now, Where Was I?

It's time for the usual apology for not posting for a while. There's been so much going on and it's coincided with one of those spells where I just don't feel like blogging. The change of seasons is bringing more changes in our lives, and as many of you know I'm not known for hitting the "like" button on change. I know it's cryptic, but you'll get it in context as we go along.

I'm playing a solo acoustic show at Cornerstone Coffeehouse in Camp Hill tomorrow, November 12th, 8:30 to 10:30: a mix of originals, off-the-wall covers and any requests I feel like taking, assuming I can fake my way through them. No, Freebird will not be one of them.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Still Rockin' After All These Years


Turning 50 can be spooky. It can also be a lot of fun. Thanks to my little brother's wife Kathy, with an assist from his father-in-law, the lead trombonist for Just Friends, Jim Wallish, Dave showed up at his backyard on Sunday with a surprised look on his face like in the picture below:

You'd almost think those two were related. That's our Dad, of course, and in the background you can see his new Toyota.

Dave's birthday party was more like a summit meeting for musicians. I know my count is off, but there were at least four drummers, three keyboard players, three bass players and enough guitar players to change a lightbulb, and that's not counting Dave's students, some of whom are pretty darn good as well -- and a couple-three sound engineers for good measure. We could have fielded an all-day festival with no problem.

It's hard to make a living playing music. It's harder still to do it and earn a reputation of being a straight shooter, a decent human, and the kind of guy you're proud to work with. Dave has managed to pull it off. Many happy returns, little brother. Reminder: You're doing the Singles Dance with us on Labor Day Sunday. You can borrow my tux. Livin' the dream.

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Got Dem Ol Lower Allen Blues, Mama

Yesterday I kept up a mostly yearly tradition of playing for either Steve or Sandy's birthday party in their backyard, by the pool. This year we had a special guest, Blind Boy Carlos, on the harp. Carlos, aka Craig Milus, is a fine harmonica player who also is in the court reporting business on the side. We had a lot of fun on a perfect day to be out eating, drinking and playing music. Thanks to Sandy for inviting me to play, to Steve for his fine vocals, to Craig for his support, and to everybody there for making it such a good time.
These are some seriously good people, and I've had the pleasure of calling them not only colleagues but friends for many years now. There may be people who make more money doing what we do, but there's more to life than income level. I count myself as a wealthy man for having friends like these (although a few more thou a year wouldn't hurt.)


Friday I did something different, one of those other things I've wanted to get around to in this Year Of Getting Around To Things. I bought enough peaches to freeze a bunch, and when I say "enough," I mean a half a bushel. Anybody want some peaches? If yes, speak up soon. They are so peaking good right now it's insane, and the juice runs down your arm. I've given a few away already, but I have a couple dozen left. If you want some, give me a call. This is what's best about summer -- good music, good friends and good produce. Soon: peach pie. Mmmmmm... pie....

Sunday, August 15, 2010

If You Stick Around Long Enough...

... the improbable will happen to you. This was the case this week when Just Friends played Knoebel's Amusement Resort Thursday. When I was in the eighth grade at St. Catherine's, there were a few high-functioning kids who formed a band called The Invaders. One of the guitar players was a distant cousin of mine named Pat McCann, who went on to play in a band called Coventry and later Rudy Kazootie (don't hold me to the spelling.) I always wanted to be able to play in a band with Pat, and this week I got the chance. He sat in on bass while Mark Evans did a time-share dealie in New Mexico. We had a great time at Knoebel's. Many of you are old enough to remember when Hershey Park was not one word and it was a real park. That's how Knoebel's is. We got soaked to the bone during the loadout, but it was still a great time. Thanks to our family and friends who stopped by, including Dave and Kathy, Bill and Ginny, Peggy Davis, and our very own Parker Kenyon.

Friday night was a rehearsal for the next iteration of The Durable Goods, with Alex Harden on bass, JF's drummer John Wilson on drums, and Joreen and I. We're doing some of the sixties stuff we did at the benefit last year, but the real thrill for me was doing a few of my new songs. I finally heard "Busted Heart" the way I heard it between my ears. Muy cool.

Last night, Just Friends with Pat McCann on bass and Chris Novak on sound played the Minnequa, a private club in Shippensburg. This is an odd little venue which supports live music, although getting the crowd to dance, clap and interact is a bit like herding cats. They sit there all night and look at you, and then at ten of twelve they start going nuts and yelling for encores. Go figure. Anyway, it was a good gig, especially for Joreen and I because we indulged ourselves in a little rock and roll fantasy. The Minnequa is right across the alley from a hotel called Shippen Place. Rather than make Joreen play 5:00 Mass, zip down the road, play four hours, drive home, get up and play Mass at 9:00 a.m., we just get a room. That way we finish playing, have a nightcap, get a good night's sleep, do the continental breakfast and go from there. It's a business expense, a mini-vacation, whatever you want to call it. We even talk about throwing the TV out the window, although we never do it.

Today was the feast of the Assumption, and Fr. Sullivan had an amazing homily about St. Catherine Laboure laying her hands in the lap of the Blessed Mother. This guy can really preach. The hymns were pretty sweet, too, once I got some feelings back in my hands. They felt like oatmeal this morning, but I still managed to get a few hymns out of them tonight. Music is the best.

Now we have some down time until September with Just Friends. I'm going to try to get a recording together of some new songs and work on some new arrangements for Vince and Jim. We're starting to really get a sound. It's all good.

Thursday, August 05, 2010

Market Day in Cleveland and the Ride Home

Just to finish up the travelogue of our Cleveland adventure, we got up early Friday morning and packed the car before and after breakfast. The woman who cooked for us, Vi, was a real sweetheart and did her best to make every breakfast memorable. We enjoyed our stay thoroughly and would recommend the University Circle B&B to anyone who wants a break from the usual Hampton Inn-style rooms.

On our way out of town, we stopped down at The West Side Market on 25th and Lorain Street. It took us a while to learn that there's a 25th Street on both sides of the city. This farmers market makes the West Shore Farmers Market look like a 7-11. The number of high quality meat stands, cheese stands, specialty stands and produce stands was so impressive that as soon as we got there I regretted not bringing a cooler. This was easily fixed by running down the street to a Dollar Store and buying a soft-shell cooler which we filled with some of the best meat I've ever bought. Feeling adventurous, I bought a rack of baby-back ribs to do on the grill, along with some amazing bacon, Vermont sharp cheese, lemons and limes way cheaper than locally available, and other bounty.

We iced everything up and headed for home, with perfect driving weather and almost no traffic troubles capping off a vacation for the record books. Of course, I'm cheating when I say a vacation is a good one, because Joreen and I could have a great time anywhere, doing anything. But Cleveland does indeed rock, and so do we -- not bad for a couple of grandparents.

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

I Don't Know Art But I Know What I Like

Thursday in Cleveland. We had another great breakfast to gear up for yet another long walking session, this time through the Cleveland Art Museum. We traded in my driver's license for a couple of headsets that would explain some of the exhibits. I feel like I earned three credit-hours that morning. I marvel at how I can look at something and go, "Hey, dude, that's old," and then by the end of the explanation of how significant it is I can barely believe I was allowed to see it.

We spent the first long stretch in the museum alternating between looking at old Egyptian, Roman, Etruscan, African and other people's stuff and running from the day care swarms. There's a special kind of annoying frequency occupied by 20 or 90 little kids in T-shirts looking at mummies. Isn't there a nice playground or water park to take these cherubs to? But I digress.

The kicker was when we had walked for two hours and my dear wife's back was starting to ask when we were leaving. Then and only then did we find the Picassos, the Van Goghs, the Monets, the Manets, etc. She got a second wind and I discovered something that might sound smart-alecky but it's not. You can just sit and look at one of those paintings and it's as entertaining as watching a movie, especially the Van Gogh. On some level it was as cool as hearing a great band, and I say that even admitting that I don't know half of the reasons why it was so great. Note to self: keep learning about art. I can't wait to go back there.

Okay, so after the museum we made another kind of ill-advised move. We had heard about these cool beaches on the lake which were to our east. After spending some time getting spun around (courtesy of "Lance," our GPS voice) and our innate ability to screw up simple directions, we arrived at this, uh, beach. Well, it had sand and it had a lake, but it was no Rehoboth. We stood there for a while and left.

By now we were getting hungry again. We had accomplished a lot in terms of getting our bearings but our lay of the land still had holes in it, so we stayed in our comfort zone and went back to Little Italy. We intended to try another restaurant, but looking at the menus at various eateries we realized we were going to pay a lot for cloth napkins and fancy place settings when we could get a perfectly perfect Italian meal at -- you guessed it -- Mama Santa's. Joreen had the chicken parmagiana and I went with the manicotti and meatballs. Good St. Rocco smiled on us again.

Now we had time on our hands and decided to go shopping. We found a mall which was almost exclusively exclusive. How exclusive? We were far and away the two worst-dressed people in the mall, and that includes the maintenance staff. We didn't spend a dime (I don't think they even take dimes there) but we had fun window-shopping and planning on how we would dress when we hit the lottery.

To cap off the night, we headed up a street from University Circle that we should have explored earlier. We were looking for a nightcap, and decided to check out Melt. This is a new restaurant that is hipper than hip in Cleveland, and has been visited both by the Diners, Drive-ins and Dives guy (who is a real d*****bag, but I digress) and the Man V. Food guy (Hey, I'm gonna try and eat five pounds of food! How cool is that?). The location we tried is the second Melt in the area, after the first one went nuclear. We arrived at 9:30 at night on a Thursday and found out it's about the only time there isn't a line to get in. Melt's founder has really hit a nerve, and it's genius. Combine a whole lot of kitsch and buzz with a couple dozen high end beers on tap and something as basic and comforting as grilled cheese sandwiches in a college town, and then just count the money.

Here's the kicker. We're having beers, and looking at the menu, and we thought it might be nice to have a bite to eat. Joreen ordered a small salad, and I chose this sandwich called The Kindergartner. It's white American cheese on bread. My brothers, you remember what Mom's grilled cheese sandwiches looked like? That's not what I got. This thing was about three and a half inches thick, and since I substituted Havarti for white American and had the grilled onions, and since I didn't look at the menu and realize it came with fries and cole slaw, I ended up doing what everybody does. I took a to-go box with me. Once again, I had experienced art -- the art of the entrepreneur, taking something as mundane as a grilled cheese sammidge and turning it into a goldmine. It was delicious. My only complaint is that we didn't go there when we were hungrier.

Next up: the farmers' market of your dreams and the ride home.

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Here's Ya Pizza, I Got Ya Pizza Right Here

Wednesday afternoon in Cleveland:

Heading back towards the bed and breakfast, we began to feel the call of the pizza. We had been told of a place called Valentino's which supposedly has the best pizza in town, but when we got there it appeared to be a tiny take-out place with some outdoor seating, not the air-conditioned pig-out refuge we had in mind. We decided to head back to Mama Santa's for pizza. It was tasty enough, especially with the sausage and mushrooms. The slow service, given the almost empty mid-afternoon state of the place, was a plus for a change as we got to sit in the AC and talk while our feet rested up from the zooathon.

We went back to the B&B and hung for a while until 6:00 when we fell into our next really good time. There is a concert series in University Heights called WOW, Wade Oval Wednesday. This evening's band was a group called The Speedbumps, an indie rock band ("indie rock" meaning they're an unsigned band working their gigi off trying to get noticed, booked and, yes, signed). The lineup is unique: guitar/lead vocals (also the writer), acoustic double bass, drums, keys and cello. The material was the usual introspective, melancholy, journey of self-discovery crap for the most part, but well played and nicely melodic. We bought the CDs -- hey, the show was free -- and it's not exactly the kind of stuff you'd play at a party, or the gym. Still, that's my new model as a music consumer, putting the cash in the hand of the guy who made the record. Some of the songs are really good, and some of the others are growing on me.

It was a flawless summer evening, warm but not oppressive, with local restaurants and even a bar, The Euclid Tavern, selling food and beverages including sushi (which I ate for the first time in Cleveland at the end of May), barbecue chicken that rocked Joreen's world courtesy of a lovely African-American woman named Ruby, and a nice cold beverage -- very civilized.

All full of ourselves (and good grub) at this point, we decided to go back to The Savannah to catch a dance band called Entourage. This was a bit of a mistake, in that they were kind of like going to see Just Friends on a real off night. I suspect at least two of the players were stand-ins, given the way they had to talk about beginnings and endings of every song. The lead chick singer -- er, excuse me, Joreen -- female vocalist was pretty talented and the overall sound was good, but the way the guitar player stomped on his overdrive during the solo on "Long Train Running" reminded me of me, and not in a good way. It was educational, but not as much fun as the oldies band.

The worst part was the tantalizingly cool T-shirt worn by the waitresses. Savannah's has live music almost every night, despite the funky economy. It makes me nuts that there's no place like that around here, but one consequence of having all those local bands booked is that one of the waitresses made a shirt that says on the back, Mustang Sally -- in a red circle with a line through it! They were out of them. I would have tried to buy the one off her back, but she had customized it with some pinking shears and I don't have the figure to pull that off. I'm going to pester these people until they finally sell me one, though. That is so frickin' cool.

Next entry: the art museum, another trip to Mama Santa's, an upscale mall, and the hippest grilled cheese sandwich in the world.

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Lions and Tigers and Bears, Who Needs 'Em?

Picking up the vacation narrative on Tuesday morning, we had an early breakfast at the B&B, hung out with Gary the proprietor a while, then headed to the Cleveland Zoo. We were there at the opening, 10:00 a.m., and for the next four hours we walked, and walked, and said, "Holy crap, look at that!" and then walked some more. As with every cultural facility we saw in Cleveland, it was a first-rate operation and at least as cool as anything in D.C. How much was there to see? By the time we had visited every major area except the above-mentioned LT&Bs, we were worn out and left them for another day.

I have to mention two high points for me. First was the butterfly exhibit. As cool as the botanical garden's butterfly display was, the zoo's was an order of magnitude cooler. This small, Garden of Eden-like room was filled with butterflies, including the huge, gorgeous blue morphos, a non-descript brown when their wings are closed, but in flight an electric blue not seen since the hippie days. Despite being crowded, the setting, the Japanese music, these tiny floating miracles put me in a state of calm, and quiet awe. Nice work, Lord, very nice work indeed. Butterflies kind of make up for mosquitoes, almost.

As we left the butterfly building, right there was another personal favorite, the giraffes. Maybe it started back when I read Slaughterhouse Five, but I've always loved giraffes. Seeing them in person, the way they move in real-time slow motion, their weird grace and calm, the beautiful coloring, everything about them fascinates me. There were eight giraffes, including two young'uns, and there was one adult who did that eating-over-the fence-with-splayed-legs-and-bent-in-half posture that just makes me laugh. Intelligent design, all right, and with a sense of humor to boot.

To paraphrase "The Princess Bride," let me explain -- no, there is too much. Let me summarize. The lorikeets, rainbow colored opportunists, snatched little cups of nectar from shaking eight-year-olds and hopped on the hands of anyone who looked like they would buy them a drink. People watching? The best. Selected species: the swarm of T-shirted shrieking daycare rats, the acid-tongued mommy shrew, the Aeropostale-breasted teen whiner, the hollow-skulled tweeners, the black-clad pierced emo sulker, the soft-brained bottle-sucking stroller bunnies, and the sunburnt map-reading tourists (hey, that was us!)

The sun was getting to be too much and our legs were reminding us of our age, so we headed back to the gate. I couldn't leave without checking out the rainforest, though, a separate facility in a geodesic dome that contained fantastic animals in a beautiful setting. High point for me was when we walked into a darkened corridor of nocturnal animals, and what appeared to be a blank glass wall transformed, as my eyes adjusted to the dim light, into a habitat for fruit bats, flying right up to the window and roosting inches from us. Creepy, okay, maybe a little, but fascinating.

That's enough for now. I'll pick up the next post at lunch, back in Little Italy.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

That's What I Call A Vacation

This morning, we had a great breakfast with a side order of conversation courtesy of the inn's owner, Gary. We chilled in the room until midmorning, then headed to the Museum of Natural History. Covering the usual arc of "you are here, the dinosaurs were here before you," the facility was full of wonders: gems, artifacts, this and that. Early high points were pieces of equipment built as backups to the Mars landrover unit; a good sized moon rock; lots of fossils and dinosaur skeleton reconstructions. The soundtrack for the morning was full of youngsters squealing with delight at the dinosaurs.

We headed next to the Botanical Gardens. Anyone who has ever tried to grow anything in dirt owes it to themselves to make the trip out here. There are controlled environments with flora and fauna in them, like the one that really got to me, the Costa Rican environment. Imagine opening an airlock-type door and being greeted by about a dozen different species of butterflies. It was amazing. Later, we found our way to a Japanese garden where it was so quiet and peaceful you could ignore the construction and the chitchat of the other tourists and just zen out for a while.

Lunch, we finished off the sandwiches and potato salad we brought with us. This evening, we headed out to a suburb called Rocky River where the real fun started. Joreen indulged herself in a pedicure, coming out with a sparkly color red usually only found on Italian imported guitars. Next, we went up the street to a Pub where the men wear kilts (because if you call them skirts, ye'll get kilt) and the waitresses where what look like Catholic school uniforms except they're so short that Sr. Mary Oblongata would have called your Mom if you showed up wearing one. They had Koenig Ludwig on tap, a Hefeweizen near and dear to Joreen's heart. The fish and chips were spot-on, and it was cheap beer Tuesdays or something like that. Bonus!

And then, the payoff. We went up the road to a club called Savannah's. Located in a strip mall, if you looked at it you would have no idea how cool it was inside. There was a four piece band called the Geezecats. When I called to ask what they did, the guy said, "Oldies." He wasn't kidding. The set list:

At The Hop, Return to Sender, Oh Donna, Pretty Little Angel Eyes, Twistin the Night Away, All in the Game, Splish Splash, Chain Gang, Walk Don't Run, Rhythm of the Falling Rain, Save the Last Dance For Me, Since I Fell For You -- then they all put on Mickey Mouse ears and sang the closing theme to the Mickey Mouse Club, and then Goodnight, Sweetheart.

My musician friends and I have played these songs, but not nearly with the finesse and grace and sincerity of these guys. The tone was perfect, the crowd was absolutely into it, the walls were filled with glossy photos of bands that have played at Savannah's since God made reverb tanks, and we had a high, holy, serious good time. We also danced to the above-mentioned slow tunes. At the end of the night, the drummer, who was apparently the leader, said this: "We're gonna be here next Tuesday. We plan on doing the same thing." That gives me hope. Some good things are still around. The guitar player was playing something called a Duesenberg. All four guys look like they've been doing this a long time, and they're doing it just exactly perfectly. Live music is the best.

There are photos, but they're in the camera which I left in the car. I'm pretty bushed, because on top of all of this I managed to find a Planet Fitness and got a workout in while Joreen was getting her tootsies done. Tomorrow: the Zoo, and the pizzeria in Little Italy that is supposedly the best around.

Sunday, July 18, 2010

Getting Ready to Get Out of Dodge

An action-packed weekend here at the Kellys. Last night I got home just minutes ahead of the rehearsal time for the Reasonable Facsimiles, the newest iteration of the Durable Goods franchise. Alex, Joreen and I were joined by John Wilson on drums, preparing for a birthday party at the brewery for a friend of Alex's. Thanks for the gig, Alex, and thank you also for an excuse to crank up and play some sweet tunes in the basement. To listen to us you'd never know we were a bunch of old farts, some older than others.

Today I called Ed and we decided to get together for eats at Ed and Grace's, which is like being on a Food Network show without the bright lights and the rude, annoying judges. If Donald Trump ate better than we did tonight, who cares. Dan and Phyllis came over and we sang four part harmony while Ed did tilapa and steaks on the grill -- well, it took two grills, but the end result was might tasty.

Meanwhile, Roger called me at 4:30 and asked me to play his brother's birthday party with him. How can I refuse, especially when the consideration we finally negotiated was a case of Troeg's, which will provide a six-pack to take on vacation. The party was a blast, and Brian, Roger's brother, had some amazing food catered for the celebration. Imagine a white cake with icing that tastes like Creamsicles. Yeah, Creamsicles. Oh, baby. Roger and Chris play have found a niche playing intimate, living-room size places and keeping the audience entertained in that framework, which is harder than it sounds. Anybody can play loud, but to play softly and still keep the energy up is a nice trick.

As summers go, I'm really enjoying this one. There's a good balance of work and play here, and there's that sense of impending joy that comes when you're expecting another grandkid. Watch this space for coming events. Next stop, after Mass and a bunch of transcripts turned in: Cleveland.

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Two-Day Long Weekend

It seems long because it's been so action-packed. Yesterday we celebrated Roger Wilkinson's birthday, which is actually today. He turns 60 and had more than one guest for each of those years at his party, which was impressive. He found about the surprise party early and volunteered to bring his own PA system and do the opening set, which was impressive. He dealt with some serious failures to communicate among various levels of management at the brewery without going into Donald Duck mode, which was impressive. Now, if he really wants to impress me, he'll play and lug equipment at my 60th birthday party. Happy Birthday, Roger. We're glad you were born.

Today was Andrea's surprise baby shower, and unlike Roger's, it stayed a surprise until she walked in the door. She actually walked in the wrong door, but that's all right. Brian's family and friends were all there, and they are a really fine bunch of people. Joreen, Mary, the boys and I felt very welcome and at home with them. The food -- hold that thought. Andie just called while I was typing this. She's still smiling from today, and I could hear it over the phone. At some point I'll have to post a picture. She's really, really expecting. Anyway, the food was outstanding. It was a place called Mama's Pizza in Loganville, and everything from the stromboli to the wings to the pasta was great. I'm going to have to dial in an extra ten minutes on the exercise machine tomorrow.

And now, I'm going to go to bed and hope this bug bite on my left pinkie continues to subside without killing me or, worse, making me play with only three fingers and a thumb. I need all the help I can get. I think it was a spider, but not one of the recluse, skin-melting, yucky kind.

Saturday, July 10, 2010

So That's What Pommes Frites Are

We finally decided on Cafe Bruges in Carlisle for our anniversary dinner, and it was very interesting. They have authentic Belgian food and beers, in some ways too authentic. I always wanted to try the fries and they were really good, although I balked at the traditional accompaniment, mayonnaise. I have an open mind, but it's not open that far. I went with the horseradish sauce, which I'm sure was mostly mayonnaise, but tasty. I had a salad of green beans, little red potatoes and bacon cubes. I think Bruges is Belgian for "Let's go carbo-load till we blow up." Joreen got something whose formal name I forget but it was basically a beef stew. The meat was great. The gravy was even better on the fries than the horsey sauce.

And of course, the beer menu is ridiculous. It's about a ten page booklet, designed to be taken by the patrons and used to make notes and keep track of the beers tried, and also to know the ABV, which is important. I got the flight of 5 ounce drafts, and surprisingly the one that made the most impression on me was the raspberry lambic. I disparage fruity beers all the time, but this was amazingly good.

We ran up a moderately impressive tab and didn't feel we'd wasted a dime. I'd recommend it to anyone who wants a different dining experience. The ambience is not very formal. The location was formerly a regular bar and grille, I believe, and it's kind of noisy, especially on a Friday when you're next to a table full of people whose trippels and saisons are starting to kick in. Fruity, sour, bitter, malty, however else you describe these beers, they are also high octane, and we were very careful to stay away from the "big" beers since we weren't planning to spend the night there. I would also recommend, if you're going to get a salad with your fries, take note whether it has potatoes in it. I didn't, and ended up bringing a bunch of fries home, which is okay because I'll reheat them for breakfast as soon as I come back from the gym


Oh, that's the other news I haven't put up here yet. I joined Planet Fitness last week. That's another one of the things I'm getting around to here in the Year of Getting Around to Things. I'm still in the process of being trained on the different equipment and I'm concentrating on the low-impact cardio stuff right now, mostly the elliptical machine which is kind of a cross-country skiing deal. Too early to start kicking sand in weenies' faces on the beach, but the big thing is it really clears the head and improves the attitude. I should have gotten around to this a long time ago.

Finally, I spoke to Dad last night (hey, Dad!) and he got a new car after somebody decided they were too damn important to stop for a red light on Derry Street last week. He's fine except for a little stiffness in the neck and an ache in the budget from having to go back to car payments for the first time in ten years. He got a Toyota Yaris. He said he likes it so far, and I'm going to have to check it out. It's a shame about his 1995 Saturn coupe, though. The cost to repair it was just too high. That was a cool car, and it sucks that GM discontinued them.

In a little while I'm going to set up for Roger Wilkinson's surprise birthday party. The surprise was for his wife and son when he found out about it a couple weeks ago. It's in the Abbey Bar upstairs at the ABC Brewery. I intend to concentrate on playing and socializing rather than eating and drinking. One side effect of resuming exercise is that you want to eat like a machine, and I can't go for that, no can do. In fact, I think I'll go break a sweat now.

Friday, July 09, 2010

34 Years and Counting

Today is our wedding anniversary, and the weather is just as hot and humid as it was back in 1976. Readers of the blog will remember this story from last year. Something very cool in the Patriot-News this morning: a Lower Paxton Twp. man and wife who make us look like newlyweds. When you get to the double nickel and think of all the cool things behind you, the temptation is to think that there's less road ahead than behind. Then I read about these folks who are still ribbing each other and flirting after 70 years, and I realize that I just got a great anniversary present, the best there is: hope.

Joreen and I will be laying low for the occasion. It's become a tradition lately to celebrate our anniversary on our vacation. Week after next we are going to Cleveland for the week. I know, not the first vacation spot that comes to mind, but there's a lot to see and do out there. There's a first rate zoo, for one thing, which the Mrs. is very into. We're staying at a B&B near Little Italy, and planning to check out the local attractions. We might even do the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame again.

Under coming attractions, Just Friends will be available to the public twice in August. Sunday, August 1, we'll be at the Hershey Antique Auto Museum for a one-hour show, from 1:00 to 2:00 p.m. They have billed us as an oldies show, so we're accommodating them. Tequila, anyone? Come check out the classic car competition and vote for your favorite. The event is a benefit for MDA, and we're in discussions with Jerry Lewis about having him open for us. Yes, really.

Saturday, August 7, we are at the Verhovay on 29th Street in Harrisburg. It looks like a dive from the outside, but it's really a very nice place to hear music. The drinks are ridiculously reasonable, the food is cheap and tasty, and of course there's Just Friends. Come hear some of the new stuff. Unfortunately, there's a conflict for some of our peeps that night, with Tom and Susan having a party, but there's ways to do both. Shuttle bus, anybody? We start at 8:00, so try to drop in for at least a set, if not the whole night.

Now, back to work. First, I think I'll go downstairs and kiss the wife. Check out the picture of us at Hummelstown. Isn't she cute? "We are the feeling you get in the golden state."

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Summertime and the Living is Not Too Shabby


Here you see the Kellys opening for Laredo at the Hummelstown Fair. Thanks to Dave, Bill, Brian and Scott for having us. There's some videos on YouTube of our performance as well as Laredo. The duet is a cautionary tale about trying to do a song you only think you know. Next time, Johnny, memorize the dang thing.

Father's Day was also pretty cool. Dave and Kathy hosted at their place and we ate hot dogs, hamburgers and the usual summer bounty. Thanks to them for their hospitality. Cookout potluck beats four star cloth napkin every time.

Let's see. Working back, Sunday the 13th of June we saw Phish in Hershey. It was a lot of fun, but not life-changing. I did not see God, collapse in tears of joy or max out my credit card buying every ticket on the tour. They were fun, though. They still can't write their way out of a paper bag, but man, can they operate those instruments.

The night before, June 12th, I did a solo acoustic show at the Cornerstone Coffeehouse in Camp Hill. It was something different for me, carrying two whole sets alone, with about three-quarters original songs. It was hard, but I managed to floop up every single one of them in some way, shape or form. The audience was kind, but since most of them were musicians, I was busted where I stood. Again, it was a lot of fun. Personal highlight was singing a song I wrote about Andrea and one that Mary gave me the idea for while they were there. It was a four-Kelly night. Brian, Andrea's man, was also there. He's just started playing guitar and is making great progress. Also, thanks to Ed and Grace for joining Joreen and I on Homeward Bound, and to my dear friends Rick and Irene Woodard for attending. Irene provided her V-8 vocal stylings on "Me and Bobby McGee." I've just booked another show at that venue for November 12th. It's so nice to play in a place full of sober, caffeinated non-smokers. Thanks also to TK, Mike Miller, Sandy Nork, Nancy and Bill Keener and those nice Camp Hill teenagers who were really into the music. There's pics floating around somewhere. I'll have to post them eventually.

And so we head into the summer. Joreen and the grandboys are pooling it up. Just Friends is playing a festival in Lykens tomorrow, and a wedding at Visaggio's on Saturday. As you know, we're not playing the fireworks at Hotel Hershey this year, but as the Chicago Cubs say, "Wait till next year." I'll let you know when stuff of interest comes up, and at some point I'm going to think about blocking off Greenwood Blvd. and doing a block party. That's something to get around to.

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Big Weekends, Past and Future

One of the perks in being in this band is that when one of our children get married, you have a built-in band for the reception. Ten years ago, JF played Mary and John's wedding, and they're still married so we must have been good. Last Saturday Just Friends' founder and leader, Vince Patti, was the father of the groom. Nino is a hairstylist whose celebrity clients include the female vocalist of Just Friends, Joreen Kelly. Autumn Patti (nee Miles) is a chef and caterer who teaches in the culinary department at HACC, which was the location of the wedding reception. You can guess where this is going, can't you?

If I told you in detail what made that meal one of the best I've ever had, this post would be too long. The staff at HACC really stepped up and created a dining experience to rival any country club or banquet facility we've played, and we've played a lot.

John Wilson is still recovering from knee surgery, so Craig Rankin stepped up again and held down the beat. The "first dances" or what we call the obligatos were a trio of sweet ballads: Unforgettable, with Joreen and I doing the Natalie/Nat Cole thing and Vince playing a nice third part on the sax; Just The Way You Look Tonight, a nice song with a nasty bridge that we finally got right; and Blessed, a minor hit for Elton John with a pretty melody and some unique changes. Learning and performing songs like that is what sets our band apart from the rest. Every challenge just sharpens our skills and broadens our repertoire. Sorry to brag a little, but when a musician of the caliber of Dave Kelly tells us he could have sat and listened to us for hours just doing cocktail music, we must have something here.

There's more to talk about, but I have to get to work. I'll tell you about the crazy weekend coming up after I get back from the hearings today.

Monday, May 10, 2010

Life Goes On and On

Back from Vermont and back in the saddle. Rate case in Philadelphia today, was supposed to be big and fat, ended up short and ugly. Speaking in sentence fragments; not sure why, just seems right.

One thing that is very cool right now is St. Catherine's 40 Hours. Fr. Sullivan is doing it "old school," which means that there is round-the-clock adoration between now and the closing tomorrow at 7:00. If you want to see something exquisite, make a visit to the church tomorrow. The Blessed Sacrament is in exposition and it's a beautiful sight. Better yet, attend the closing. After years of being an afterthought to the Easter Season, 40 Hours has become something special in our parish.

Friday, May 07, 2010

Sad News

Most of you already know, but Joreen's sister Jinny lost her battle with cancer, "the beast" as Jinny called it, Wednesday morning at 10:30. It was an epic battle and she went down swinging to the end. Joreen is already in Vermont. The funeral is Saturday, so Mary and I are leaving this morning to head up there.

If there's such a thing as a best friend-of-a-friend, mine is Don House. Don is a close friend of Tom Roller and I see him occasionally, most recently at the Havana Blue gig, which was really good. I've been remiss in blogging, but you already know that.

Don lost his lovely wife Marilyn suddenly some years ago. She was a sweetheart and her illness and death came out of nowhere. Once in a conversation with Don he just came up with this statement: Love your people, and tell them you love them. It's simple and profound and it always comes to mind at a time like this.

Since December 2009 Jinny kept a blog on caringbridge.org. You have to sign in to post comments but I believe you can just read it. CaringBridge is a pretty amazing thing as you can see, providing websites to link friends and families of those fighting cancer. You can read the story of Jinny's journey as a "warrior poet" there. Here is a link to her first entry, page 1 of 8:

http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/jinnyallison/journal/8

I never knew Jinny was such a good writer, but I'm not surprised. It runs in the family. I'm still running across essays and articles that my mother-in-law wrote.

Jinny included this essay in her first entry, which today I think is worth quoting in its entirety.

"Hope is a state of mind, not of the world....Either we have hope or we don't; it is a dimension of the soul, and it's not essentially dependent on some particular observation of the world or estimate of the situation.

"Hope is not prognostication. It is an orientation of the spirit, and orientation of the heart; it transcends the world that is immediately experienced, and is anchored somewhere beyond its horizon.

"Hope, in this deep and powerful sense, is not the same as joy that things are going well, or willingness to invest in enterprises that are obviously heading for success, but rather an ability to work for something because it is good, not just because it stands a chance to succeed. The more propitious the situation in which we demonstrate hope, the deeper the hope is.

"Hope is definitely not the same thing as optimism. It is not the conviction that something will turn out well, but the certainty that something makes sense, regardless of how it turns out."

Vaclav Havel, writer, dramatist, politician
Last President of Czechoslovakia
First President of the Czech Republic
Cancer Survivor

Pretty intense, Vaclav. I hope you're right about all that. Thanks for the quote, Jinny, and for the good times we had together over the years. I hope to see you again.

Monday, March 01, 2010

Time Keeps On Slipping Into The Future...

... and some of us are slipping in real time. I made an appointment for a physical back at the beginning of the year. I knew it was for March but couldn't find the envelope/Post-It/newspaper I wrote the date on. Meanwhile, the doctor's office made the usual "hey dummy" reminder call on my home phone number, which I have all but stopped paying attention to thanks to that rat bastard Unavailable. (Until he tells me his name, I'm "unavailable" too.) Bottom line, the physical was supposed to be today, but they were kind enough to reschedule for three weeks from now. It might look like I'm stalling because my spider sense tells me what the doctor is going to have me do, but I'm not. I know it's important and there's no more putting it off. I'll keep you informed. Maybe I'll use that new networking service for all things digestive. I think it rhymes with Twitter.

Enough goofiness. I went out to see David, Bill, Brian and Scott at the Winner's Circle Thursday night. Thanks to the impending weather which never did anything but impend, the room was empty except for a few hardy souls. Laredo is sounding really good and their new material is very impressive. Personal favorite, "Sara Smile." Very sweet. These guys are great and getting better all the time. I get a kick out of Lonesome Cowboy Brian, too.

Friday, Joreen and I went over to Ed and Grace's house and hung out, ate Grace's outstanding guacamole and sang harmony (not while we were eating, of course.) It's nice to get together with folks and entertain ourselves, for cheap. Joreen and I are going with a classic fast for Lent, which is why the international flags at the brewery are all at half mast, but we had fun nevertheless. They've got the playpen and baby seat in the living like the rocking grandparents they are.

Sunday, I played with Hemlock Hollow from 3:00 to 5:00 at the HMAC. For the second time recently, I was there in the daytime and all the nice stuff I said about it in the last post still applies. I played bass and sang with Chris and Roger. Highlights were Roger tossing "Ophelia" and "Wall of Death" over his shoulder. I caught 'em both. (The Band and Richard Thompson, respectively.) During the set break, I played some of the new tunes I talked about last post and they went over well. I'm looking forward to branching out and doing some new things musically in the coming months and years, and this feels like a shove in the right direction. It's also nice to have a live bass in my hands again. Chris was also prepared with grandbaby pics for Joreen to dig. It's a grandma thing. Thanks to the Wilkinsons for letting me sit in and try to replace the irreplaceable Mike Miller (Wassup, Mike!). The HMAC is attempting to get an acoustic thing going on Sunday afternoons. If you're interested, do the Facebook thing and follow along.

Finally, Just Friends is playing what is becoming unfortunately one of our rare local appearances Friday at the Verhovay. We're still adjusting to shifting circumstances here and doing the best we can. Frankly, I get discouraged sometimes -- until we show up for rehearsal and kick off a song. Then it's All Good. "When this world turns its back on you, hang in and do that sweet thing you do -- you just roll with it, baby." If you're not doing anything Friday -- hell, cancel whatever else you're doing Friday and come dance with Just Friends. And as always, thank you for your support.

Sunday, February 14, 2010

Happy Valentine's Day

Let's try to summarize the last two weeks, which seem to have gone by in a blur. Sunday, Jan. 31st, Hemlock Hollow held their CD release party at the Harrisburg Midtown Arts Center. It was very successful, attended by many of the folks we've seen at Roger's house: Tom Cook, Jefferson Pepper and his wife Lauri (who will see this entry because they have a Google Alert set for Jeff's name -- hey, Jeff and Lauri!), Craig and Cari Longyear, Dave Kluz, and some other HollowHeads who I know by sight but not by name.

I've talked about this venue before. It's a different looking place in the daytime, but still cool. Mike Banks ran sound, I sang some harmony on a few tunes, and it was a nice Sunday afternoon. I am the proud owner of an autographed Hemlock Hollow CD, and it's pretty sweet. The tune selection is representative of the band's show, mixing traditional, acousticized pop songs and originals by Roger, all presented with pristine sound. Jeff Meglio did a great job on the recording. Roger is in great form vocally and the studio recording showcases how good he's singing. Mike Miller's harmonies, Chris Wilkinson's mandolin and the guest artists are all first rate.

Roger told me today that they will be at the HMAC the last Sunday afternoon of each month. March 28th I will be sitting in for Mike Miller on bass, and maybe doing a few songs of my own.

Speaking of my own songs, there must be something in the water. In the last three weeks I've written five songs, the latest being a reggae tune that just popped up yesterday afternoon. I'm shaking my head, and digging it big time. My little brother David just got the drywall for his basement studio. Watch this space for announcement of my own CD release party.

Speaking of something in the water, some of my close friends became grandparents this weekend. Grace McGovern's daughter Maggie had a daughter, Maria Grace; Roger's son Andrew had a son, Henry Thomas. Everyone's doing fine. Look for an uptick in the sale of digital cameras and picture frames in the area this month.

Speaking of my little brother Dave, his new band Laredo debuted at the Carlisle Moose last night, with my other little brother Bill on bass. Bill has a new bass and new boots and is doing a great job on harmonies. Brian Juran has stepped out from behind the sound board for the first time in 25 years (!) to play and sing, and apparently it is like riding a bicycle. The drummer Scott Powell is solid and sounds great, and of course David is picking and grinning and keeping the crowd happy like he always does. They sounded better than any band has a right to on their first gig, and they've got the firepower to really light it up. Check out their schedule. Maybe Dave will have you get up and play "Keep Your Hands To Yourself." (Thanks for the guest spot, little brother.)

Since today is Valentine's Day, I made the traditional heart-shaped Rice Krispies Marshmallow* Treats which I blogged about before here. The aforementioned reggae tune, specifically in the "lovers rock" style, was the rest of my Valentine's Day gift to my first wife, my girlfriend and my muse, the amazing Mrs. Kelly. She got me a silicone rolling pin, which may sound strange, but I used it to bake bread this morning and it really did make rolling out the dough easier. I had a nice rolling pin that went missing some time ago, and this is a great replacement. Ain't love grand?

Finally, we have a new administrator at St. Catherine's. Fr. Neil Sullivan, who was assigned here about five years ago, has been assigned to replace Fr. David Hereshko, recently reassigned to Abbotstown. Fr. Sullivan is a gifted preacher, an expert in liturgy, a musician and a real man of God. He's very happy to be here, and the feeling is mutual. He spoke at all the Masses and did a fine job of getting everybody fired up about the upcoming Lenten season. God bless him and us as, in Fr. Sullivan's words, "the adventure begins."

(*Edited this morning to correct spelling. Joreen is not only my muse but my spellchecker as well. What a multi-tasking babe!)

Saturday, January 30, 2010

The Good Stuff



If you go out to listen to music, no matter how skilled the player or how good the sound, it seems like there's distractions you have to zen through, things like people talking, and other people talking, and the people next to them talking. The better the performer, the more annoying this becomes. The problem is that there is no unity of intent in the audience. I intend to listen carefully and enjoy the song. The couple next to me intends to entertain each other and ignore the music, no matter how fine.

There are moments, all too rare, when this problem goes away and you have the convergence of a great performer, a quiet room, and an audience who values the music over conversation. Friday night was a perfect example.

You've never heard of Joe Crookston until now. He's a gifted songwriter, engaging storyteller, off-the-hook guitarist and, between sets, a great guy to hang with. Bill Nork introduced me to his music. Bill and Joe Milsom aka Robert Bobby met Joe Crookston at NERFA, sort of a Millennium Conference for folk singers, and maintained contact over the years.

Mr. and Mrs. Bobby graciously opened their basement for a house concert featuring Joe Crookston. All basements are not created equal. Mine is filled with crap. Theirs is a first-rate venue for acoustic music. Around 25 people sat facing a small, well-lit stage, with acoustics so good that Joe didn't even plug in.

After introducing himself, Joe played a beautiful song about why we were together, what we could expect, sort of an opening hymn whose theme was, "We have all we need here." That song, and the encore, a deeply moving song about Michelangelo's David, bookended the best concert of 2010 so far and one that will be hard to top. Neither of those songs are recorded yet, but hopefully that will be remedied on Joe's next album.

For the second set, Joe invited Mr. Bobby and Bill Nork to sit in on a Robert Bobby song, "Sweet Potato Vine."



Bill stayed up to play a few more songs with Joe Crookston, including "Red Rooster in the Mash Pile."




I'm an old Peter, Paul and Maryite, so for me "folk music" comes pre-loaded with some expectations. Joe Crookston meets and exceeds all of them. Folk music to me implies stories of real life, taking actual events and true stories and presenting them in such a way that they become universal. When every head in the audience nods in recognition and agreement at a line, you know you're getting it right. When a performer makes this process look effortless and natural, you can bet there's tons of back-breaking work that went into it. Go to Joe's website and look at his schedule, and imagine keeping that pace for a while.

Again, thanks to Mr. and Mrs. Bobby for their hospitality, and to the audience for zipping their lips. Jefferson Pepper, seated next to me, did sing a little harmony now and then, but he did it quietly and perfectly in pitch, so that was cool. Karen Gray (hey, girlfriend!) was in discussions with Mr. Bobby about doing a one-woman show there. If and when that happens, it will be a tough ticket, so talk to Ms. Gray about that deal.

Check the news on Robert Bobby's site for a reunion of The Speedboys in Lancaster on May 22nd. Unless you just signed a contract to play somewhere else (#%$#*!), mark your calendars and don't miss it.

It's been an amazing musical week. Two new songs showed up on my doorstep and were debuted at the Midtown Arts Center open mic on Wednesday, and then last night I experienced once again the beauty and power that can be created with "Hands, Metal and Wood." In the words of the prophet Zappa, "Music is the best."

Monday, January 25, 2010

And In Other Muse...

I'm walking around feeling pretty smug about writing two little ditties this week. Joreen sits down at the piano and plays this four part choral piece that she's been wrestling with for at least two years, and it finally came together. It is exquisite, and it's going to sound even better when a choir sings it. There's something going on around here, and I don't know what brought it on, but I hope it sticks around for a while.

Maybe I should write a song about sump pumps, and how important it is to have a backup source of power for them so you don't have to go to Lowe's and buy a battery powered aquarium pump and try to move five gallon buckets of water all morning. Now, that's a hit record.

Thursday, January 21, 2010

Be Vewy Qwiet. I'm Hunting Lywics.

The recurring image that comes to my mind about songwriting is that of Elmer Fudd hunting wabbits, when Bugs Bunny is tip-toeing right behind him. Songwriting can be the most frustrating activity in the world and the most rewarding, almost all at once. Case in point: I've been carrying around a fragment, two lines -- two really, really good lines -- for about 20 years. Last night, on the way to the store, the rest of a song just marched up and said, "Okay, Doc, ya got me." Then there's that interesting time between the creative flash and when you can get somewhere to write it down. A few minutes at the laptop, a few simple chords and viola! Bonus: today while tearing down my equipment after a hearing, a second verse started materializing. I think it's done, and I'm pretty happy with it.

I think going to the open mic at the midtown arts center might be helping get stuff moving for me. I've been threatening to "work on my solo album" for a long time. This being The Year Of Getting Around To Things, I guess it's time. The material is all over the place stylistically, but we'll see what happens. I do know this new tune is going to be in there.

Sunday, January 17, 2010

Fly, Eagles, Fly



Just Friends made some new friends last night at the Carlisle Eagles. The club is spacious and the crowd is friendly and ready to dance. The usual "first-date" jitters gave way to a pretty good time, and before you know it the set list was out the window as "Proud Mary," "Saw Her Standing There/Slow Down," "For The Good Times" and other tunes just showed up. We had great feedback (from the people, not the amps, thanks to our ace sound engineer, Brian Juran) and we are confident we'll be back. Earl the doorman said, "You sound good and you're not too loud." I tried to be helpful and volunteered to play louder next time.

To those of you who are new to the band, hearing us for the first time or for the first time in a while, we appreciate your compliments and encouragement. The band is working hard in somewhat hard times to find venues and keep people dancing, which we see as a public service. People work hard and they deserve to relax, move around the dance floor and smile for a while. That's our mission.

If you frequent clubs or venues that have live music, mention us to the management. If you get any response from them, please let us know. We're more ready to play than we've ever been. As always, thanks for your friendship and support.

Saturday, January 16, 2010

At Last, My Gig Has Come Along

Last night, after what seemed like a lot longer than 33 days, Just Friends was set up, turned on and ready to play for a very packed Verhovay. The band was pumped and came out of the gate roaring. We had a great time. Many of the regular readers of this blog were there: Kathy Patti, Tina Wallish, Reita Wilson, Sharon Evans (the complete Band Wives Club!); some of John the drummer's family, including the brother who introduced him to the band; my little brothers Dave and Bill and sisters-in-law Kathy and Ginny; Ed and Grace McGovern, Karen Gray and Mike Dougan, Cari Longyear, Tom and Bob Roller, Mike Knarr, my daughter Mary and her friend Monica, and probably a few others that my guitar-player brain is forgetting. My apologies if you're one of them. *

Besides three members of the newly formed band Laredo (Dave, Bill and Brian Juran), two members of Jury of Five were present, Mark Sigouin (sp?) and Al Condit. It's always great when fellow musicians are in the audience; it makes me sit up a little straighter and try just a little harder not to clam. We saw many familiar faces at the club and many new ones, and we were very gratified at the positive response to the show.

Special mention goes to two of our long-time fans and friends of Just Friends, Tom and Betty Kresge. They have been following us and supporting live music in general in this area for as long as I've been in the band, and if this area had a thousand more folks like them, central PA would be a paradise for live bands.

Tom has been battling a serious illness recently. As we were setting up, I thought of the Kresges and called Mike and Dottie Miller to get Tom's number, just to let him know we'd miss him. I was pleasantly surprised to hear the Kresges would probably be there, and sure enough there they were at their usual table. As I told Tom, he looks to be in pretty good shape for the shape he's in. Everyone was glad to see him up on the dance floor, along with his wife, who as you know dances like a wild woman but is just as sweet and gracious as her husband. Tom is a real gentleman, and we hope to see him and Betty at our gigs for a long time to come, starting with March 6th when we return to the Verhovay.

There might be some folks around who think this band is not as good as it used to be. That opinion wasn't shared by anyone in the club last night. All we have to do now is rebuild and expand our list of venues. This is going to be a great year for the band, and we hope to see old friends and make new ones as we go along. Watch for some surprises. Do us a favor if you were there, and tell your friends. Befriend us on Facebook, check the website, and if you know any brides-to-be, tell them about us. I don't want to sound needy, but we're excited to be playing and want to do it as much as possible. Fortunately we don't have to wait long. Tonight we're at the Carlisle Eagles, a new venue and a new chance to make a first impression. I wish it was eight o'clock already.

(* I just remembered that Mike Liddick was there. Mike is a veteran of the Harrisburg music scene as a member of the Sounds of Gold and many other bands, including Just Friends. Sorry, Mike. Glad you could make it.)

Monday, January 11, 2010

Best. Leftovers. Ever.

For those of you in the Pampered Chef cult, you may be familiar with the Deep Dish Baker, that ceramic thing that makes a whole chicken in the microwave in a half-hour. Joreen used one of the recipes that came with it, and served it with some misgivings. "It's either going to be good or not." The recipe is this:

Mix one can of whole berry cranberries with a can of cream of mushroom soup and one packet of onion soup mix. Pour over top of chicken in baker. Cover with lid, place in oven, bake for 1.5 hours at 425.

The little Purdue chicken came out as moist as could be, and the drippings left behind were delicious as a sauce. The best, though, was the leftovers tonight, chopped up chicken in the drippings (which thickened up nicely overnight in the refrigerator). Served over mashed potatoes with homemade bread. The blend of sweet and savory flavors was outstanding. It was one of the best things I ever tasted. No, there's no photo. I ate it all. Make your own and you can see what it looks like then. Next time, I'm going to make waffles to go with it.

We're getting psyched up for the Verhovay Friday. Hope to see all our friends there.

Saturday, January 09, 2010

Joreen's Choice For Dinner Tonight

We've been married too long. She said at lunch, "What do you want to do for dinner tonight?" I said, "Oh, all right, I'll take you to the Farm Show." That's where we're headed. It's actually one of our favorite restaurants and it's only open one week a year. I'm not thrilled about paying $10 to park, I can tell you. We might see if we can scam a free spot on Cameron Street and "stick it to the man."

I've been quiet on the blog, but one fun thing happened recently. I went down to the open mic at Harrisburg Midtown Arts Center and played some of my original tunes to a pretty large and very receptive crowd. I had mostly given up on the open mic experience, finding it not too satisfying, but this has a lot going for it. Mike Banks is a very experienced host and really keeps things moving. The stage is beautiful, very tastefully lit. The sound is really good (as long as you're playing acoustic). The audience is more than just people coming to play and there's talking, but there's listening as well.

Some years ago, Joreen bought me a Boss loop station pedal and for some reason I couldn't wrap my brain around its operation, put it away and said, "I'll get to learning it someday." I've declared 2010 The Year Of Getting Around To Things, and that's one I can cross off. In fact I don't know why I had such a hard time of it earlier. It's pretty simple once you get the hang of synching up the loop. I used it on stage and didn't have any train wrecks at all.

For you Facebookers, the open mic page is here. I don't know if this link will go right to Facebook for you or not.

Anyway, Joreen will be here soon. Better get ready to get in the potato donuts line. Mmmmmmmm.......potato donuts.............